Shy and nervous on my first day, not many words were said in
the car ride with my dad on the way. We had left early to ensure I would be PRompt;
one guest speaker we had in PR Consultancy in 2013 said something which stuck
in my brain... “If you’re going to be two minutes late, don’t bother turning up…
Anywhere you go, you have to get there on time!”
I was 38 minutes early. If that’s not prompt- I don’t know what is.
Visibly nervous, my dad asked me, “What’s the matter? You will be fine.”But, would I??
What if I don’t know what to do? What if I don’t know what to say? What if nobody likes me!?One thing in life is that things are not always certain. And it was up to me to put myself out there and give it a go, and get out of my ‘comfortable university zone’- isn’t that what it’s all about?
I could really be surprised at what the experience could be like. And I was.
I was 38 minutes early. If that’s not prompt- I don’t know what is.
Visibly nervous, my dad asked me, “What’s the matter? You will be fine.”But, would I??
What if I don’t know what to do? What if I don’t know what to say? What if nobody likes me!?One thing in life is that things are not always certain. And it was up to me to put myself out there and give it a go, and get out of my ‘comfortable university zone’- isn’t that what it’s all about?
I could really be surprised at what the experience could be like. And I was.
I hesitantly walked up the steps into PPR’s West Perth
office. Trying to go over ice-breakers in my head was not really helpful. I was
also trying to remember every single little thing that I’d learnt at university
over the space of three years, to the point where I had overthought too much and I couldn’t remember if the word cheese had one ‘e’ or two ‘e’s
in it.
When I got inside, I got to my desk and the people around me smiled and introduced themselves. Throughout the day, I met almost every one. Every one I bumped into spoke to me, and I felt more and more at ease with the more people I spoke to. Every single person I met tried to make me feel comfortable and happy to be there- and I sure was! Although I didn't know exactly what to say to everyone, I smiled and introduced myself, and tried to be as open and approachable as I could be- which was the first step of getting out of that so called 'comfortable university zone'.
When I got inside, I got to my desk and the people around me smiled and introduced themselves. Throughout the day, I met almost every one. Every one I bumped into spoke to me, and I felt more and more at ease with the more people I spoke to. Every single person I met tried to make me feel comfortable and happy to be there- and I sure was! Although I didn't know exactly what to say to everyone, I smiled and introduced myself, and tried to be as open and approachable as I could be- which was the first step of getting out of that so called 'comfortable university zone'.
What were the nerves for…? I was worried that I wouldn’t know
what to say, or what to do.
Of course I won’t know how to do everything straight away, but the placement is a learning experience.
Of course I won’t know how to do everything straight away, but the placement is a learning experience.
On my first day, I learnt that:
- It’s okay to make mistakes.
- Ask lots of questions.
- Remember and understand that a smile goes a long way.
- It's okay to be nervous, everyone feels it sometimes. It means you care about what you're doing!
- The ‘real’ world can be scary, but only if you let it.
Until next week,
Caitlin
4 comments:
Hi Caitlin,
Thanks for the interesting post!
You are not alone! We all feel nervous when we are uncertain about what's in store for us. :)
And I agree very much about what you said you have learnt from your first day, especially about asking questions. Many of us are shy to do so and that actually causes us to create little stumbling blocks along our way.
I'm really looking forward to your next post to hear more about your experience!
Hey Jo!
I'm glad others feel the same way!!
Yes I agree- even that initial question that you ask, as little as it may be, makes you more comfortable to continue to ask questions!
Hey Caitlin,
Thanks for the insight on your first day! I, too, share the same sentiments. It's funny how our mind tend to over think and get the better of us.
Sounds that your colleagues were all very friendly and I would say that you're lucky that you get to meet them all in one day! I agree that the first day is the day that you have a lot of questions and it's okay to make mistakes.
At the end of the day, wouldn't we wonder what was it really that we were nervous about? (:
I'm looking forward to hear more of your exciting journey!
Cheers!
Fie (from Curtin Singapore)
I definitely agree Fie!
What were we nervous about! I think it's the preconceived idea of what we had going into the workplace that makes us nervous.
I hope you have enjoyed your internship!
Caitlin :)
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